About the Coach & Coaching

Coach Ashley

I was born in Taiwan and spent my early childhood there before my family relocated to Virginia in the US. Since then, I have lived in several countries - including France, UK, Chile, and now Spain, where I currently call Madrid home. These experiences have shaped my core values of curiosity, resilience, open-mindedness, and a nonjudgemental outlook.

Relocating, particularly as an adult, has brought its own sets of challenges. Each move required learning new languages, building friendships from the ground up, and adapting to unfamiliar environments not to mention navigating practical hurdles like visas, residency requirements, and even getting a new driver's license! At times I felt like an outsider and the journey was often both isolating and overwhelming, sometimes even straining relationships. Yet, these challenges have also fueled my growth, helping me embrace diverse cultures and build meaningful connections with people from all backgrounds. This journey has given me a deep, empathetic understanding of the complexities of cross-cultural relationships and the feeling of being an outsider.

In my coaching, I draw on the harmonious philosophies of the East along with the individualistic perspectives of the West to offer a balanced, culturally informed approach. Outside of coaching, I find peace in nature and joy in outdoor adventures like rock climbing and mountain biking, which continually inspire me to push past my own fears.

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Experience & Education

In my professional journey, I spent 17 years working in the fashion industry in New York and London. Starting on the creative side, I later transitioned to the business side, collaborating with merchandising and e-commerce teams at companies like Stella McCartney, eBay UK, and a British sportswear startup. While managing a team of six, I discovered my passion for motivating and guiding others to realize their full potential.

However, when my husband’s job required us to relocate to Santiago, Chile, I had to step away from my career. The language barrier made it difficult to continue in the same field, and I initially felt lost and uncertain about starting a new career, especially as I approached my 40s. What seemed like a setback eventually became a blessing in disguise, as it led me to discover a more purposeful path. Becoming a coach has been the most fulfilling and rewarding experience of my life, and I feel truly honored that my clients trust me to be part of their personal growth and life journey.

Education & Training

- Bachelor's in Business Management at Pace University, New York, NY.

- Life & Success Coach Certification at JSCS, Jay Shetty Coaching School.

- Accredited Foundation Coach by the Association for Coaching (AC).

Coaching Process

The Mission

As your dedicated coach, my mission is to guide you through a transformative journey toward personal growth and fulfillment. I offer a safe and nurturing space where you can conquer self-doubt, master effective communication, and build deep, trusting relationships. Your commitment to investing time and effort is the key to unlocking lasting positive changes as you navigate your unique challenges.

The Process

Our coaching process emphasizes understanding your true self while exploring triggers and attachments whether they are reconciling with the values you grew up with or adapting to a new cultural norm. This includes healing from past relationships, journaling, and taking actionable steps. This self-work will provide new perspectives and cultivate a healthier mindset, enabling you to develop a healthy relationship with yourself that aligns with your core values.

Next Step

I understand that finding a therapist or coach you can fully trust and feel safe with to open up and be vulnerable with isn't easy. However, a trusting relationship is essential to real growth. That's why I offer a complimentary 30-minute consultation for us to get to know each other and explore whether my approach aligns with your needs. Take the first step toward positive changes by scheduling your consultation today!

Free Consultation

How are the sessions conducted?

Currently, I am based in Madrid, Spain, and offering in-person coaching sessions in Madrid only. All other sessions take place online via Google Meet or Zoom providing a comfortable and private experience for you.

Who benefits from relationship coaching?

Anyone seeking guidance and support in navigating the complexities of cross-cultural relationships, relocation or transitions, whether you’re single, married, in a long-term partnership, or facing separation. The 60 minute session is tailored to your unique experiences. Additionally, those pursuing personal growth, self-discovery, and career advancement will find value in our sessions. No matter your specific challenges or goals, I provide culturally inclusive, personalized guidance to help you strengthen your relationships and thrive in your journey of self-discovery and connection.

WHAT IS Relationship CoachING?

The Lotus Way Coaching empowers individuals and couples to navigate the unique issues relationships face during challenging periods. The culturally sensitive approach helps you manage conflicts, enhance communication, and overcome personal and relationship obstacles that arise from transitions. I believe that cultivating a deep relationship with yourself is the key to building meaningful connections with others. Through personalized sessions, you will embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth, with valuable insights into your relationship patterns, emotional triggers, and specific cultural dynamics. Together, we will work on managing emotions, improving communication, and addressing relationship challenges with understanding and compassion.

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